Self-doubt is a miserable thing!

MollyHealing, Yoga

Self-doubt is a miserable thing!

In life, there are lots of things we want to do, but often something stops us from even trying. Do you want to die with a long list of regrets? By Molly Furzer

This topic is close to my heart, as it’s something I’ve been through many times. I’ve seen a lot of friends go through it too. As an Intuitive Healer, I see it often in my clients.

It’s called SELF-DOUBT. I’ve put it in capital letters so we can really shine a light on it. Self-doubt keeps you from doing what you dream of. It makes you feel yuck inside. It can tear apart your self-confidence. And it is really not worth any of your time or energy!

If there is something that you really want to do – just do it! Push through the fear and doubt. If you fail, you just try again. We don’t always succeed the first time. Sometimes our plans need tinkering and a second or third try.

Feel the Fear and do it Anyway is a brilliant book by Susan Jeffers. This book really had a big impact on where I am today. It started in 2003 when one day in yoga class I had an insight that it was natural for me to do yoga and to teach yoga. Being quiet, and a little shy, I couldn’t imagine talking in front of a class and guiding them through meditations and poses!

I came across Jeffers’ book in the library and it set me on a course of doing things regardless of the fear that might arise inside. I signed up for a year-long yoga teacher training to get a diploma, which I thought would give me more knowledge, but I probably wouldn’t teach [see the self-doubt creeping in?].

I had been giving private lessons to a good friend so I could get some practice and she urged me to start a class when the training finished. I acted on her belief in me and started a class. It was pretty scary to put myself out there and for at least a year I couldn’t call myself a “yoga teacher”. But eventually I started enjoying myself teaching. It got easier with practice and I started to believe in myself more.

Any skill will require some practice to become proficient. You can’t expect to play the piano like Elton John with just a few lessons. So when people hear I am a yoga teacher and say “I tried yoga a few times but I’m no good at it”, I can’t help but give them this analogy.

The antidote to self-doubt is to believe in yourself. BELIEVE.

And if self-doubt creeps in, control your thoughts with mindfulness. Stop the negative self-talk in its tracks and focus on something positive. Take action towards your dreams. Try new things! Make your life interesting and fulfilling.

I am sure there are lots of people around you who already believe in your abilities, so just go do it!

To book an intuitive healing session, visit my healing website.

Molly Furzer has been practising yoga since 1999 and teaching since 2007. She teaches gentle yoga to adults and Kids & Family Yoga in the Rainbow Kids Yoga method. She also leads Laughter Yoga classes and offers Intuitive Healing.